auburn
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mabinogi and i have had a long, arduous relationship. though i no longer play, i still appeciate the game, it's players, the art style, the sense of community. but what is the game, without it's community? since the very beginning of mabipro, the gms seem to feel the need to insert themselves into community drama. now, i have argued these points of mine at length with drahan and whoever would listen. before anyone says i'm rallying for toxicity - i'm not! i don't believe anyone should be toxic, but i'm an american, and i also believe in freedom of speech. my friends are what you would call "trolls" and while i am, of course, biased on their side of the court, i don't tend to participate in their shenanigans.
these are the behaviors i believe should be punishable: cheating, doxing, blacklist bypassing, death threats.
if someone isn't doing one of these things ( with room for suggestion of course, such as for spamming, scamming, those kinds of things ) i believe people should have total freedom to say whatever they want without repercussion. mabinogi wasn't like mabipro, with people of all kinds, friendly, rude, toxic, creeps- and while they were never punished by nexon, they also served to create the large, diverse community of live mabi.
there is NO benefit to this overmoderation. the mabipro community has slowly dwindled down to only the most sensitive voices and most dedicated players. there is no more pvp, there is no more competition, people are just expected to be kind or face consequences. what does this leave us with? stressed out gms who don't even want to face the issue, the issue they've created for themselves. reporting someone on nexon mabi for saying something you deem offensive, you would be told to ' USE THE BLACKLIST. ' the blacklist, a feature long forgotten and ignored by the gms of mabipro in favor of micromanaging their community. why? by not blacklisting someone, you are opting into being offended. and then to turn around and report that same person who offended you? childish. petty. in an adult world, words should not be harming you. a person irl could say whatever they want to your face without repercussion. the need to punish anyone who says something out of line is absolutely juvenile and has slowly killed the game over time.
how many people have quit over this? sure, they might not be people you like, but they were still people, populating dunbarton, populating the NOW EMPTY game. now, the place is deserted, with the people who left poking their head in intermittently just to see what a sad state the server is in. i am telling you with utmost sincerity, overmoderation is the biggest issue. my suggestion is to drop this "pernicious behavior" clause, let people do and say what they want, of course, within reason! nobody should be ruining anyone else's game experience - that's why the blacklist EXISTS, to remove these troublesome people from your experience. that should NOT be up to gms, of course, unless it is bypassed.
but a year and a half and the same argument ten times later, i feel like i'm talking to air. even though it "stresses them out" so very much, like the very same people who opt into being offended by not blacklisting someone offending their sensitive ideologies, the gms opt into this stress by their insistent micromanaging of the community. it is not and has never been necessary. i don't even play this game anymore for - basically - the same reasons listed above, but i'd love to see it thrive, but i'm certain it can't if things remain the way they are currently. do the gms even want the server to thrive, or do they want their own closed community, at which they are the heads of? certainly, it can't be enjoyable getting on a game with ~60 people online at any given time.
yes, this is a free service, and people appreciate that. yes, you own it, you can do whatever you want, but is this really how you want it to be? i bet drahan doesn't even enjoy running the server anymore, but keeps it up out of obligation to the people who donated. let there be change. if it isn't already too late, some people may return.
sorry if this is real long-winded wow i have no life!!!! edited for some words.